My 14 your old niece has been advertising herself for sex online and posting naked pics? My 14 year old niece has been advertising herself for sex online at various swingers' sites. She has posted pics of herself topless and another pic of herself masturbating. She lives abroad, so it's hard for me to help her. I found out about her online activity through some shrewd detective work. It old her mom but her mom has not done anything about it. What would make a 14 year old get caught up in stuff like this? I believe she has actually met some grown men for sex. I can understand a 14 year old wanting to experiment with teenage boys, but advertising herself to 30 year old men seems way OTT. What might cause this behavior and how can I help? I'm wondering if she has been molested and that's why she has become so over-sexed. She also drinks a lot of alcohol and binge eats (she is very overweight). |
| her mother ought to be smacked. nice parenting |
Is it legal to host swinger parties in hotels even if people are paying to attend? I went to a swinger party that is single-male-friendly. I found them through a website ran by a couple. What they do is post dates for their parties online. The person just has to e-mail them with a picture and description and confirm they will attend. They don't disclose the exact hotel until a few hours and on the day of the party when you get there the guy tells you to call him to let him know you're there and then you go in through the a back door. Once you go in the room a so called 'donation" is required. The "donation" is to pay for the costs of the party (snacks, soda, adult dvds, condoms, etc). Single men pay $100, couples are $30 I believe and single females are free. They are very discreet about it too. No pics and vids are allowed and they have rules like "don't touch anyone without permission, be respectful, always use condoms, blah bla bla..." Their parties last about 4 hours. Daytime parties are called gangbang parties so the ratio of men to women is like 15:5 and probably only 1 or 2 couples. Their evening parties I assume are more couples friendly and they call them simply swing parties. So is this legal? Is there like a loophole in the law against prostitution? This is in the Northeast U.S. by the way. Sorry if I over-explained but I was wondering about this. Thanks. |
There's another thing you have to take into consideration that probably not a lot of other people may think of. Which is, the Hotel itself and whether or not the owners and managers even know that it's going on and whether or not they would allow it. The person who answered before me is essentially correct in that if it were legal they wouldn't have to be ducking and hiding.
I would be very carefull that this isn't law enforcement itself setting up some kind of trap or "sting" so to speak-they are notorious for this. |
I am in a pickle, please help? I met a swinger couple on a swinger site? The wife is a 40 year total knockout milf. She is high-end, top drawer and her sex appeal is amazing.
They saw pics of my wife and I want to go to dinner with us. Here is the problem, my wife knows nothing about this. What should I do? Should I tell the couple that I am trying to break my wife in slowly and that we can meet them at a bar but they should not tell my wife we already met online? This way my wife may like them and not be judgemental. Then after my wife finds out that they are swingers, then maybe my wife might realize that if this couple is very nice and likeable, then swinging may not be that bad.
What do you think about this mess I am creating? HOW SHOULD I HANDLE? Please help.
I would appreciate your insight. |
| Sounds like you've pretty much made a total hash of it so far; unless you are trying to turn this marriage into the sitcom from hell, I'd walk away from the swinger idea untill after i ran it by the most important person in your life. |
Sex sites/swinger sites? My husband has in & out of these type of internet sites for a few years now (I know by checking the history). Recently he had an email and they referred to him as a member sending him pics of potential matches, etc. I don't think he'd cheat, but he works long hours, and I sometimes wonder if he wants someone else. Also, money seems short at times. What would you think?? |
He may be looking, but as far as the money, you can join these sites for free and get matches via e-mail. You just don't have all the priveledges of membership which usually means you cannot actually make direct contact with anyone. You can look, but not touch basically. The most you can do without paying is look at their picture and profile and maybe send them through the site a generic e-mail which the site writes. Usually something like " Your profile made me smile or I like your profile". If you have seen the matches, you should be able to get into his account. His username will be on the e-mail and the site link should be too. Go to the site and type in the username and there should be something that says "forgot password". Click that, it usually will ask you to put in the e-mail address where the account was registered. Type in the e-mail address and they will send you the password. Go back and put in username and password. At that point you should be able to see how far he has went. Check what e-mails he has sent/received and his account status (how much he paid).
Once you figure this out then I would talk to your husband. I wouldn't before because then he could delete things. At least you may be able to tell how far things have gone.
Good luck!
Oh, this was from personal expereince with my husband and there are alot of these sites out there Adult Friendfinder is one of the biggest.
Feel free to e-mail me any questions you may have. |
Do freaky house wives send their pics out to random guys? My friend has met two wives this way. Once of them told him about this website www.swinglifestyle.com. I know what it is, I know about swingers ect. Im just wondering how many woman are into these type of online relationships???
tigersfan_13@yahoo.com |
| There are plenty of women interested in this. Haven't you been on Yahoo 360? It's sad that some women are that desperate for attention. |
I have A BUNCH OF QUESTIONS about me and my boyfriend (pics included!!!!)? i2.photobucket.com/albums/y7/makesally/SNC00632.jpg
i2.photobucket.com/albums/y7/makesally/SNC00663-1.jpg
What are your first impressions of us?
So we have visible chemistry??
Can you tell we are in love?
Which one of us looks like an A Type Personality, and which looks like a B Type?
Do you think one of us loves the other more?
Do you think one of us is cuter than the other?
Can you guess what store we look that picture in?
Do we look like swingers? We get that alot for some reason... |
| hun your beautiful but your boyfriend looks really old no offence but if you really really love him it shouldnt matter what people think it should be based off your sensibilitys.. noone can choose you boyfriend for you. |
My now ex boyfriend has been a member of a swingers site he says it is just innocent. Any opinions? My now ex-boyfriend has a personal ad on a swingers site. He had sex pics of me posted with him and was posing as a single male. He has given me several different reasons why he had the ad. One was it is just fantasy and he wasnt going to act on it. Another was he was hoping I would change my mind about it so he continued to look. Help me understand the whole thing.... |
| Girlfriend; there isn't any thing innocent about being a swinger, once you start you don't stop, he lied to you straight off jump street. Swinging can get mighty KINKY. |
Feminine, hot, single bi girls??? Tampa, Pinellas??? I don't think people understand my ? I can't find a "real" bi girl for nothing. I don't want a girl that has a man, I have my own, but...............I want want just for me, not for my bf and I. And I'm a little to mature just for cyber sex. I was a swinger for 2 yrs and have hot pics but I can't seem to find the right woman......help pleeeeasssseee |
| Email me your pics i'll evaluate you and set you up on some hot dates |
Is paris hilton having a relationship with Micheline love (from america's next top model)? Paris is pic'd everywhere, including clubbing, at the beach, going home. Everywhere, enough. However, when she goes out this Michilene is with her at all times. (We were curious who the tattoed woman was who was always with Paris, saw her name in a comment and Yahoo'd her name) Both have previously identified themselves as bisexual. At least Micheline has. she just changed her myspace page from," married, swinger. orientation bisexual" to " in a relationship." Paris, you've seen the pics. They are always together, and very affectionate. |
No, they are not having a relationship at all. Micheline is happily married and they are simply friends.
Yes, Micheline was on ANTM but she did not make the cut due to politics on the set. |
Do you think he is cheating or he just happens to have a good excuss for it all? I am a little suspicious of my boyfriend. We are in a long distance relationship and these are the things that are making me feel like he is maybe cheating or hiding something.
-i hinted in a very suttle way i wanted his password and he pretty much said i dont know it. So then i was like so how do you sign into msn and myspace and he said it signs me in automatically. . . . . myspace doesnt NOT sign anyone in automatically, well i just dismissed it thinking ok he wants his privacy thats ok.
-A girl commented all his myspace pics saying "aww you look so cute babe" and "i love you so much". Ok i was pissed...so i sent him a message pretty much saying WTF and he said he didnt know why she was saying it, he loved me not her. So i listened, took a step back but now i was on full alert watching to see if he was cheating.
-He wouldnt put my name on his myspace page, he didnt even change his status. . . he put it on swinger.( i saw this and so put mine to divorced and he noticed and said ilill change mine if you change your to married, so you can be married to me) so i changed it and 2 days later he changes it back to swinger.
-Now he clames he has 3 jobs and is too busy to even talk to me anymore, he sends me a message a day. |
To me is sounds like he is cheating, I used to have a but deleted it. One thing i do remember is you can set as your homepage so maybe thats what he did. But i think that he is cheating on you because otherwise he would keep his status on married instead of swinger. after all he told you that "...so you can be married to me." if he really loves you he will change his ways. but its kind of hard to say bc well, how far away is he? if you need to talk i am here. my email is
quickietalk@aol.com
hope i helped. Good luck and god bless. |